Reviewed by the legal team at Estey & Bomberger, LLP · Updated November 14, 2026
If you just found out
If your child is in danger right now, call 911. For a mental health crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) any time, day or night.
Self-harm, such as cutting, burning, or hitting oneself, is usually a way to cope with overwhelming emotional pain. It is not attention-seeking, and it is not your fault. Try to respond with calm and care rather than anger. Make sure any wounds are treated, and contact your child's doctor or a mental health provider soon.
Self-harm is not always a suicide attempt, but it is a sign of serious distress, and it should always be taken seriously.
How TikTok is alleged to play a role
The lawsuits against TikTok and ByteDance allege that the app's recommendation system can show self-harm-related content to young users who are already struggling. Families say coded hashtags and "sad" content can slip past moderation, and that once a child pauses on one video, the For You feed may serve many more.
The suits also point to:
- Infinite scroll and autoplay that make it hard to stop
- Late-night use and notifications that harm sleep and mood
- Weak age checks that let young children onto the app
- Parental controls that give families little real visibility
Learn more on our how TikTok addicts kids page.
Signs a child may be self-harming
- Unexplained cuts, burns, or bruises, often on arms, legs, or stomach
- Long sleeves or pants in warm weather
- Bloody tissues or hidden sharp objects
- Spending long periods alone in the bathroom or bedroom
- Strong mood swings, sadness, or numbness
Some young people also say they first learned about self-harm, or about ways to hide it, from videos they were shown online. If your child shares something like this, try to stay calm and listen. It can be important for their care team, and for understanding what happened.
Self-harm often appears with depression, anxiety, or eating disorders. A professional can help sort out what your child needs.
Self-harm claims in the social media litigation
Self-harm is among the injuries families have raised in the cases against TikTok, Meta, Google, and Snap. In November 2023, the federal court in MDL No. 3047 allowed design-defect and failure-to-warn claims to proceed against the platforms. Those claims center on features the companies chose to build, or chose not to build, such as stronger parental controls and screen-time limits.
Each family's case is its own. You can find an overview on our TikTok addiction lawsuit page.
Records and evidence
- Medical records for wound care or ER visits
- Therapy, psychiatry, and intensive program records
- School nurse and counselor notes
- Screen-time data and TikTok account details
Do not delete the account. It may hold important history. Our save evidence guide can help.
What compensation may cover
A claim may seek costs for medical care, scar treatment, therapy, intensive outpatient or residential programs, future care, and damages for emotional suffering. Results depend on each case, and we never promise an outcome.
How we can help
Estey & Bomberger, LLP offers free, confidential reviews to families nationwide. There is no fee unless we win. We can meet remotely or come to you, and we will always put your child's well-being first. Request your free case review.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does self-harm mean my child is suicidal?
Not always, but it is a sign of serious pain and raises risk. Please involve a mental health professional, and call or text 988 if you are worried.
My child hid their self-harm for a long time. Can we still file?
Yes. Many kids hide self-harm. What matters is the harm and the care your child has received.
Can a claim include more than one injury?
Yes. Self-harm often comes with depression, anxiety, or eating disorders, and all may be part of one claim.
What if my child also used Instagram?
We handle claims involving Instagram, YouTube, Snapchat, and Facebook too. Tell us about every platform your child used.
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